Don’t forget the “who’s” this Christmas

Posted: December 8, 2017 by efenster in Ideas
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Ed 09Are you the type of person who tends to get so focused on your to-do lists that you don’t give much attention to the people involved?  Well, I’m guilty of that.  Many times I get so caught up in developing and implementing plans that I miss really interacting with the persons behind the plans.

One of the new insights I’ve received as I’ve gone through coaching certification training this year is not only to focus on the what in a coaching conversation–such as what the client wants to accomplish–but also to focus on the who, the person who’s being coached–their feelings, their stuck points, and underlying issues. Many times the real agenda turns out not to be at the what level but at the who.

IMG_0649To-do lists can consume us this time of year can’t they?  We’ve got a to-do list for the Christmas stuff at our churches that have to get done, our gift-giving lists, home decorating lists, and of course lists for all our special Christmas parties and activities.  This year, among all the what’s of Christmas, I’m going to try to remember all the who’s that are involved.

A favorite Christmas story read at our house each Christmas Eve is How the Grinch Stole Christmas!  A lot of what defined Christmas for the Grinch are many of the things on my to-do lists, the what’s.  But remember, it was the who’s that really understood the real meaning of Christmas.  May we too focus on the who’s and what the who’s focused on!  And, of course, may we focus on the greatest who--the great “I Am”– whose coming we celebrate this season!

— Ed Fenstermacher, Associate Director of Church Development

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